Mamek ittali udopamin ɣa yenni yallah yebdan ad xsen aya wya, ihekkwa ɣa yenni ittemsebḍan. niɣ ihekkwa s leḥriq n beṭṭu
Tayri: Cwayt n Ucimi, d ca nniḍen
- Umi qqaren leḥriq n beṭṭu?
- Min tteg qaɛ leḥriq n beṭṭu?
- Mayemmi daneɣ itteqqes beṭṭu?
- Min ittɛawanen x leḥriq n beṭṭu?
Umi qqaren leḥriq n beṭṭu?
Amen niɣ wer ttamen: Awarni beṭṭu s imeṭṭawen, tettɣima tyacit s tmexsa waxxa amenni. Ahurmun n dopamin mala twezned-t ɣar yenni yemsebḍan, ad tafed am yenni i yallah ɛad bdan ad xsen aya wya. Ittali udopamin ɣar jjehd, Serotonin ihekkwa. Imussnawen ssemquddan tyacit am tenni n ca n uḥenjir d ameẓyan yettru x yemma‑s.
Min ttuɣa yellan d nnacaṭ waha, ittedwal xaf‑s aẓuyyet d usḥissef. Da ittraḥ udopamin, la d Noradrenalin ineqqes. Adrenalin d Cortisol ttalyen.
Cḥal mma ttuɣa timexsa tejhed, anict itteqsiḥ beṭṭu. Aṭṭas i xef tettek la di taddut-nsen. Ittraḥ‑asen yiḍes niɣ ttnexlaɛen. leḥriq n beṭṭu ssemquddan imussnawen min tesseka xef utarras, akd PTSD (ijjen lehlak n min ityuran i wnexliɛ)
Min itteg qaɛ leḥriq n beṭṭu?
Tamussnawt Elisabeth Kübler-Ross tsaqared ijjen umudil n 5 n tbeddarjin i txessart d lmut. Amudil‑a sxeddamen‑t yeḍbiben la di leḥriq beṭṭu. di leḥriq n beṭṭu, nbeṭṭa jar 4 ar 7 n tbeddarjin. Maca urid marra tettek xaf‑sen kifkif, maci labud ad mseḍfant tbeddarjin‑a.
leḥriq tamzwarut nzemmer ad as-nini “aɛlam” mala ifaqq akid‑s uterras, xmi ɣa tacid belli amuni niɣ lemlak wer zzag‑s d ittyuri ca d asebḥan, tettacid belli yeggur ɣar beṭṭu.
Xmi wer din bu weɛlam, ttili tɣennant. Melmi tegged ixef nnem/nnek belli kurcci yeggur mliḥ. Tettagid ad tamned belli wer din teqqim bu tewwurt terẓem di tɣuni-nni. Belli din tawwurt n beṭṭu waha. Dinni tfafid x tcuni yeɛdan cehar niɣ aseggʷas zegʷami, tegged zzag‑s layas deg iman.
Cḥal xaf‑s ɣa tekk ? netta beṭṭu yemsebḍa x yewḍan. din wi ittbeddan x iḍaren‑nnes ɛawd deɣya deɣya. Dinni wi dd‑itawyen iseggʷusa n usefsi n ixeyyiqen d tiqqaḍ. Dinni wi ihellken s ca lehlak am Stalking (am melmi ttafed ca n yejjin iḍaffar tenni iked imsebḍa manis mma tekka maḥend ad tt-iẓer)
Iḍaffar‑it‑id Diprisyun (Axiyyeq), temsar‑as am lqeṭɛa x druɣa, druɣ‑a n da, d ttimexsa. Cwayt cwayt, ittali‑dd ɣa walli belli tɣuni nni safi tefsi, amuni wer yeqqim. Din wi xef tettek nican, tteksen x macca, niɣ semmḥen deg ixf-nsen.
Ssin itteḍfar‑dd manaya niɣ ittizwar‑as‑dd tmessi treqq deg wul, da ttili s uɛesseb, aɛesseb x tecrikt/acrik n tudert imsebḍan. Marra tyacitin tekkent deg ufiltru, yettɣima ɣir tyacit n melmi dag‑s terrid kurpa. Tyacit tzemmer ad teṭṭef atarras ad xaf‑s teḥkem, cnaw diprisyun. Aṭṭas n tmenɣiwin di ddunect lesbab‑nsent d leḥriq n beṭṭu.
Tabeddact tameggarut d “beddu”. Awarni ma ad bedden cwayt n iyyuren. ca n twalatin ar yeqfel usegʷas. Ad tesɣelyed beṭṭu‑nni. ttaweḍ lweqt ad txezred ɣer zzat, ad tebdid ad terzud x lefraḥet, d min ɣa yessilyen dopamin ɛawd.
Mayemmi daneɣ-itteqqes beṭṭu?
Aṭṭas n tiyurtin i yellan, maca ca yifa ca. Qqaren imussnawen belli leḥriq n tayri tzemmer ad tili d ijjen walarm teggit tnefsit‑nneɣ. Teqqar‑as i taddut: Beṭṭu‑ya ad cek-yessehlek, xzer mamek ɣa tegged wer ttemsebḍiḍ. D manaya itejjan lebda nteṭṭef s teɣmas di wi nettxess waxxa qqnent tewwura marra.
zeg ijjen uɣeẓḍis nniḍen ttraḥen ca n imussnawen ɣer trezzut deg uydud. Qqren belli tanefsit s uxeyyeq‑nni. Trezzu wi das ɣa yewcen werha, ad das-yesḥinneb. Manaya qat la ɣa ca n yeklusa n iɣerḍayen, ufin tettek xaf‑sen leḥriq n beṭṭu.
Min ittɛawanen x leḥriq n beṭṭu?
Mala nessiwel s tbyulujit, qa ihurmunen n wenni ixef tettek s beṭṭu, urid aqqa-yen nurmal. Anict n min ittali udupamin ɣa yenni i yallah xsen aya wya, anict min ihekkwa ɣa yenni i yallah ttemsebḍan. Yargazen d ttemɣarin msebḍan deg umesebḍi.
Timɣarin ssnent i wemsawal. Awal x beṭṭu ittɛawan aṭṭas ḥima ad teddzed ixiyyiqen. Ttimɣarin tettek xaf‑sen cwayt kṭer, maca tɛeddu deɣya. Yargazen teffren axiyyeq, uca tɛeṭṭlen wer tgenfin.
Tirezzutin ttafent belli: twarrit ɣer ijjen tegdurt wer telli. Aṭṭas n yewdan ittemser ɣer‑sen manayenni yemrawas (Dopamin …), Maca ca n ttmeslayin nniḍen n ihurmunen nniḍen ɛad acraf‑nsent wer yefsi wer t-nefhim.
Mkul bnadem d iktayn‑nnes (memories), Alli wer yemriwis deg usexdem n yektayen‑a. La d min yekkin x bnadem di temẓi d tudert‑nnes amen tekmel. Tzemmer ad tḍebber di leḥriq n beṭṭu ma tejhed, ma ad tekk ad teɛda waha.
Pastiyyat, Tcukulati d arryaḍa.
Ca n trezzutin ufint belli ddwawat i nessen n leḥriq acnaw Paracetamol, izemmer ad ad issenqes leḥriq n beṭṭu. Mayemmi? Minzi leḥriq n taddut d wenni n tnefsit, iḥekkem dag‑sen s tnayn iyidsen ijjen wemkan waha deg walli. Alli wer das-yecqi leḥriq min t-yiran, netta yessen‑it d leḥriq waha. suyenni Paracetamol ittɛawan x iyezzimen n tnefsit.
Ahurmun n striss, Cortisol, ineqqes s macca. Ifuṭuten itzerrem n yenni d tinni di tassut s tcukulati d cips. Urid d iceṭṭiḥen. Maca macca n tizit s uxiyyeq ixess zzag‑s ḥettu, minzi izemmer ad yedwel d ṭṭbiɛet d taɛeffant. Amenni la d ddwa n leḥriq, wer yexliq i wesgenfi i waṭṭas n wussan.
Timussnawin d Imussnawen n Sport ufin belli Arryaḍa d unhezzi ittɛawan ɣa ustriss n tnefsit, tiggʷdi, d striss. Ittali zzag‑s Serotonin uca ttedwalen ihurmunen nurmal. Tazzra di barra d unhezzi yecna i tnefsit. Mala wer tzemmred i tazzra, bda s ticri waha, akd imeddukal ɛad ḥsen.
Iktayen d imaynuten, urid leḥriq aqdim.
Melmi nettili yallah nemsebḍa, txessa ad nsseɛda ussan cnan ccuren s lefraḥet. Ḥima ad nkumasa ɛawed. Aṭṭas n yewdan deg ussan-nsen n beṭṭu, qqnen ɣer iwdan dasen dd‑yenḍen. Suyenni, itxessa ad tsselhan ad das bnan iktayen d jdid.
Dinni wi ittgenfan deɣya mala yender iḍennat awarn‑as, yebda dirikt zi jdid. Teshel s wawal waha, ssneɣ. Maca manaya yebna x trezzutin timassanin. Atarras ad ijarreb waha. Mamek tzemmred ad tḥesbed min yellan yecna di tuɛzayyit.
Beddu awarn‑i beṭṭu yeqseḥ, nettegg reqjurat ntsedda dag‑sen iktayen-nneɣ n zic, nettxes ad xaf‑sen neqqen i lebda. La d abeddel n stil n tudert d warruḍ d wemcaḍ niɣ ca n lhiwaya n jdid izemmer ad iɛawen ɣa wgenfu zi beṭṭu.
Beṭṭu zi beṭṭu, nssiwel x beṭṭu n tmexsa, neccin irifyyen niweḍ necca bunajuf, nzemmer ad t-neḥseb d ijjen uklasi n ucarh‑iman. Niweḍ ad negg lmunker deg ixf-nneɣ, ad negg lfuyun di tmeɣriwin …, Beṭṭu zi beṭṭu, zi mani nella neccin di beṭṭu, akd tmurt, lwadjay, imeddukal, d llif. Ca n twalatin tmunan‑dd, uca aqqa-aneɣ ɛad da, nbedd am ijjen nhar. Suya wer ttenqiḍ. Ad teggenfid cḥal mma tekkid.
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